Wednesday, October 8, 2014

31 Day Challenge: Living Room

Here's where I utterly failed. I didn't even start this one until the day after it was assigned. I was sort of busy catching up on other things and going to IKEA and then Target and the day just disappeared. Weekends were supposed to be for "catching up" but I think they will turn out to be the opposite.

So step 4 was working on the "Living Room". Which got me a bit stuck because technically we have two, and the basement one is not something I can really do much about, at least not without substantial input from my husband.

The main floor one, well, it's become a play room/lounging area/receptacle for stuff I don't know where to put yet (seeing a pattern? Once things were banished from the entryway...they didn't go far.) We also didn't have much going on in terms of decor, aside from the new-to-us china hutch.

The shape of the room doesn't lend itself well to conversational seating arrangements, as the best places to put the couches are directly opposite each other. I could put them at a 90 degree angle, but that would block the heating vents, which are below the windows. Most of what I actually do in this room is take a break, sit down, and look at my phone. On the other hand, (epiphany?) it is the room that most lends itself to entertaining, which is something I want to do more of.

Before: From the upper staircase

Before: From the entryway stairs

Before: From the dining room

After: From the upper staircase

After: From the entryway stairs

After: From the dining room

So. The first thing I did was banish Sam's easel to his bedroom, and move all the stray bins and bags out of the room. I recently inherited the large basket, which I had been using to store some of my reusable shopping bags before they went back into my car. I decided that it would be better used to collect stray toys, since I really should just put the empty bags back in the car right away. 

Then I put away my aging netbook, but left the laptop speakers out, to be used with an old CD boombox I'd been using in the dining room. I'd like to put in a stereo sooner than later, but this will do for playing Sam's Music Together CD, or whatever I want to listen to while doing chores. 

Then I played musical lamps, bringing down a table lamp from the bedroom and bringing up a torch lamp from the basement. This is a room that has always begged for more lighting, since it doesn't have much overhead lighting to speak of. Now it has a total of four lamps, plus the chandelier over the entryway. 

I removed the faded window dressings, to be replaced by a valance in the near future. I also plan to replace the hopscotch rug with something a little less "playroom" styled. (I also plan to decorate the inside of the hutch seasonally, but we'll hold off on that for a minute.)

So, three purchases from now, I ought to be completely happy with this room. But it's decluttered and good enough for the moment, which is good enough for me. Onward! #LWSLClutterFree

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

31 Day Challenge: Mail

Posting this to complete step 3 of the LWSL 31 Day Clutter Free Challenge. Here are my before and after photos. Please ignore my kitchen mess. I'd spent the previous day focused entirely on the entryway and other chores. :)

Before: Kitchen counter

Before: Desktop in office

After: Kitchen counter

After: Kitchen counter (close up)

After: Desk TOP, as in top of the hutch above the desk

Before mail was piling up on the kitchen counter and on my desk. Epiphany: I have this issue where I feel the need to keep important statements but never get around to filing them properly.

I've designated Mondays as Mail/Pay Bills days when Sam is in school. So each Monday when I get finished reading, paying, etc I will make a file folder with the date and tuck whatever leftover papers "to keep" in there. That way, I have a chronological ordering of statements that I can refer to without feeling the need to categorize things. I started with four fat file folders labeled "Filed 10-30-14" to get the existing papers out of the way, up high on top of the hutch on my desk.

I put the few "action items" into my pink box, (can you spot it hiding under the pile of paper in photo #2 above?) with a few empty folders with blank labels underneath, for next few weeks' filing. [Last minute Monday night edit: I dealt with the box's contents and filed a folder for the week! Right on schedule! Yay!] I also dug out a small trash bin ideal for paper recycling. and located my new paper shredder. In all, I had about one full paper grocery bag full of papers to recycle.

I also found some (still valid!) coupons that I planned to use; these were immediately added to my purse and/or my glove box in the van, so we have them when we're out and about. I've decided to put a hold on newspaper grocery couponing for the moment, at least until I get the office back under control, so those were recycled as well. To be honest, there are always online printables, and Target's been good about offering mobile coupons and Cartwheel.

Also, this isn't necessarily mail, per se, but a few weeks ago I started binders for Sam's school paperwork and private therapy paperwork from Fraser. The green binder and a blue one behind it sit on my kitchen counter between my pink box and the wall, and I also keep a three-hole-punch in the area to add things to the binders as needed. Now if I can just figure out what to do with all the art projects that get sent home...

Onward! #LWSLClutterFree

Monday, October 6, 2014

Hello again...and my 31 day challenge

Now that Sam's back in school, I've had a little more time to think and space to breathe. Thinking about dipping my toe back into blogging again, but I want to start kind of slow and casual. So, we're mostly going to talk about cooking, decorating, and household-y stuff for a bit.

One of the blogs I've been subscribed to for awhile now is called Living Well Spending Less. It is pretty much what it says it is. They are doing a 31 day decluttering challenge, and since I was already in the process of purging and redecorating our townhouse, I figured I'd take a stab at it. So far, it is kicking my ass. Day 2 (the first day was setting the rules) was the entryway. So here are my before and after shots:

Before: From top of stairs

Before: From basement stairs

Before: From front door

Before: Closet

After: From top of stairs

After: From basement stairs

After: From front door

After: Closet

So, in the before shots, the closet floor has been used as a dumping ground for old shoes and other random stuff that we never dealt with when it came into the house. Epiphany: Things coming into the house and not having "homes" and things lingering too long on the way out of the house are major issues for us in terms of clutter. 

I threw out a lot of old worn out shoes from the closet, and moved the board games from the top of it. We literally hadn't touched any of them aside from Cards Against Humanity since we moved in three years ago. So they are going to either find new homes or leave. There was also a banker's box full of light bulbs up there. It got moved to what I'm calling the "utility cabinet" in our laundry room.

Sam has hooks on the wall for his backpack and coat, but we didn't have a good method of dealing with shoes. The tray tended to both cover the heating vent and attract random clutter. I moved it into the closet with my winter boots and shoes and Dan's hiking boots. Other than what we currently wear (and my run-into-the-garage slippers) there are no shoes in the entryway. 

Other additions to the closet were a scarf hanger and a hanging shelf system to keep track of hats and gloves. We may add some baskets to the top shelf, but for now, I am liking the idea of leaving it empty until we discover a good use for it. I'm still not happy with the folding tray tables and the white board being in there, but as we declutter the rest of the house we will probably find better homes for them. 

Cosmetically I added two LED candles to the sconces for the first time. The rugs were still in reasonably decent shape, so I left them as-is. I still haven't figured out a good solution for my purse. Perhaps it would be better kept off the landing anyway.

Anyway. Onward! #LWSLClutterFree

Friday, January 24, 2014

Video Friday: Um. The title would spoil it.

So I laughed out loud hearing this on Wonderground on Monday afternoon. It was a "What the *&^% am I listening to?" kind of moment. I don't know that the video adds much to it, but here it is.


Saturday, January 18, 2014

What seems to be going on with a lot of people right now

A couple weeks ago, I started a new post for the new year, with goals (not resolutions), but I just couldn't piece it all together. It started to come off humble-braggy (which has stopped me from posting a lot of things lately) and then got really overwhelming. I've already basically failed completely on the one goal I was really excited to try to do for January, which sucks, but then someone pointed out "Why not try again in February? It's a shorter month, too!" So that's what I might do instead.

I'm really struggling with my depression right now. Between the crappy weather and lack of daylight, it's just been hard to drag myself out of bed (though I have to get Sam on the bus, so I do) or shower, take care of my house, cook for myself and my family, you name it. These last few days I've noticed no fewer than three major bloggers/vloggers that I follow, totally unrelated to one another*, post about their struggles right now as well. Their posts really helped me, as I found myself nodding along with a lot of what they were saying. All of them are kind of old hat at managing mental illness, and I thought they were all worth sharing.

First, Wil Wheaton posted a couple of blog posts about where he's at creatively and mentally and what he's doing about that. Here, and here. He also wrote this a couple years ago.

Then I was catching up on You Tube videos and found this one from Angelina LB, aka ALB in Wonderland, aka the girl with pink hair with the kick ass take down of the idea of "fake geek girls". She's had a rough few months, and in general a lot of loss. She also tends to have a bunch of idiot trolls harassing her from time to time. So that sucks. First, in September, she posted this, and then a few days ago she added this. Girl is in the trenches. Also, this is a case where, yes, you can read the comments on a You Tube video**. A rare thing indeed. Sometimes? People are amazing.

Then yesterday, someone on Facebook shared this post by the Bloggess, who is on my list of blogs I need to start reading ASAP. That's when I decided that this wasn't just a coincidence; people in general are genuinely struggling in the world right now. Several acquaintances in a private support group had also shared that they were having a rough time, which led to others commenting "Me too!" Some friends went to a comedy show with me earlier in November, and the headliner shared that she'd had a mental health breakdown after her dog died in an accident (and it was due to a mistake on her part that it had happened.)

Anyhow. The upshot of all of this is that we are not alone. Not one of us. It's not a contest; hard is hard, and pain is pain. But there are other people in the world going through the same thing you are. The internet is a big place, and I guarantee there is someone who knows exactly how you feel. The above links have many resources, hotlines, etc. If you live in the Twin Cities, you can get free counseling here. And I'd love to talk over coffee, if you just need support and camaraderie.

*OK so Wil Wheaton and Jenny Lawson (The Bloggess) do sort of know each other. She has an awesome page of him collating paper. He quotes her in his post from 2012. But I wasn't pointed their collective direction by the same segments of my online life.
**So far, at least. No guarantee that they won't be overrun by trolls at a later date.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Homemade Yogurt

Over the past few months I've become a little obsessed with starting to feed my family better (or at least more whole) food. We are still not good at this, but I'm taking baby steps. On Sunday and Monday I made two big batches of homemade chicken stock, to be added to recipes instead of using bouillon or canned stock. I froze a total of 10 cups (in 2 cup increments) and still have nearly a quart in the fridge to become soup.

I've been using Kitchen Stewardship's* list of baby steps to get started. We're working on getting all of the artificial sweeteners out of the house, and already avoided trans fats (step 1). We already use full fat dairy for everything except milk, and we tend to cook in either butter or olive oil already, though I'm curious about coconut oil (step 2). Sometimes I meal plan (step 3), and when I do, we eat really well, at home, for weeks on end. When I don't, we tend to grab more fast food and eat at restaurants more often, which is harder on our budget as well as our bodies. Meal planning also gives me structure enough to plan my coupon shopping, though I have made it to Aldi on a couple of occasions recently.

And step 4** was homemade yogurt. I first made it a couple weeks ago, just a half gallon to try it, in two quart sized containers. I had half a 32-oz container of Stonyfield organic plain yogurt in the fridge at the time (I'd gone through two of them already just "making sure" that I wanted to eat plain yogurt, and I did!), but I wanted fresh cultures (without possible contamination) so I bought a small plain Greek yogurt. Nobody had plain yogurt in small containers except one brand of Greek. What I am trying to say is that I had a lot of yogurt in my fridge at the end of this, which is why it lasted me two whole weeks. I suspect I'll go through a half gallon a week when I get going with this.

I eat my yogurt with granola or muesli, or just plain uncooked rolled oats with some dried or fresh fruit. If I'm doing that, I tend to sweeten the yogurt slightly with either brown sugar or honey, or (my new favorite) a spoonful of my homemade jam. I cannot wait to see how it is with my apple butter. Anyhow, I try to mix equal parts yogurt and other stuff because I like crunchy in every bite. It's more like eating cereal with yogurt instead of the milk rather than eating yogurt topped with a little granola. I was pleasantly surprised that the homemade yogurt had a much less tart taste to it compared to commercial yogurt, probably partially because I let the temp get nice and low and only cultured it for six hours.

Granola + Yogurt + Raspberry Jam = ...

Pink Yumminess!***

I didn't use the Kitchen Stewardship recipe, because at first I thought I'd be lazy about it and do it in the crock pot, so I clicked her link to Heartland Renaissance**** and saw that she's got a slightly better (non crock pot) method. It involves more dishes than the KS recipe, but I don't really mind that as I own a dishwasher. It also uses the oven to sterilize the jars and to incubate the yogurt, which is perfect for me! I was afraid of using the cooler-with-a-pot-of-boiling-water incubation method used by KS because I was sure Sam would mess with it. I use the bread stone and a big cast iron griddle in there with it to help hold the temp. I've been yogurt making on Tuesdays so that I don't mind not using the oven for dinner, because we eat bag lunches at class rather than eating at home.

Supplies (not pictured: large dishrags, one canning ring, a funnel, a small spoon and a large ladle.)

Jars in the oven with the bread stone, the cast iron griddle, and a pan I use for steam when I bake bread.

This time, I accidentally let the milk get a little too hot, and I was just praying it didn't curdle. It foamed up but I caught it pretty quickly when it happened and took it off the heat. My least favorite part of the process is waiting for the milk to cool.

Hot milk!

Anyhow. It eventually got cool to 110 degrees. I'd saved a small jar of culture from when I opened my last jar of homemade yogurt over the weekend, so I was pretty certain that was not contaminated and still contained active cultures. I mixed the now room temperature starter with a couple scoops of warm milk until it got smooth. Then I stirred that into the pot. I was careful not to disturb the bottom of the pan while I was stirring, and I was glad when I poured the warm milk/culture mixture into the jars. Anything that curdled or burned stayed in the pan.

Measured culture starter

Well blended with some warm milk

Blended with all of the warm milk, ready to grow cultures

In the jars!

Aftermath in the stock pot

Then I put the filled jars back in the oven, wrapped them in large thick dish towels, and left it to sit until we got home from class. Start to finish, including waiting time, it took about 2.5 hours to make and then sat for 7-ish. The bulk of the 2.5 hours was spent writing this post (and yesterday's), setting timers to recheck the thermometer, and scooping off skin from the hot milk, and doing whatever. About 10-15 minutes was actual active "doing" stuff, and that only took as long as it did because I was taking pictures.

Wrapped up all cozy!

Last night when we got back from class, I put the lids and rings on the jars and popped them in the fridge. This morning, I had yummy yogurt to eat!

Finished product, moment of truth

It's set! Yay!

Check that out. It's even thicker than the last time I made it.

That's it. I just ate a delicious breakfast of dry rolled oats in homemade yogurt with raisins and a little brown sugar. Since the yogurt is unsweetened I can use it in recipes to replace sour cream or buttermilk, and if I wanted to I could strain it to make it an even thicker Greek style yogurt or even yogurt cheese (to be used like cream cheese). Two ingredients, a few pieces of equipment I already had on hand (I only had to buy the candy thermometer, and needed one anyway), and voila. I'll say it now: this is even easier than baking that artisan bread. If I weren't home during the day, I'd have done the milk heating and cooling in the evening and then let it sit overnight. You can also let it sit up to 24 hours if you want it to be very easily digestible (the cultures eat all of the lactose), so yeah. I think the only way to screw this up would be if you didn't properly sterilize your jars, or you didn't let the milk get cool enough not to kill the cultures. Before, I was paying $3.50 for 32 ounces of whole milk yogurt, organic because that's the only way I could get the full fat version. Now I paid $1.79 for twice that, made with conventional milk and cultures I already had.

*I'm not a fan of her politics/theology in general, but food-wise she's got some interesting ideas (and fantastic recipes.) I tend to take it all with a very large grain of salt.
**We've done parts of steps 5-10 as well, but I don't need to detail them here.
***Those are flaxseeds, not raspberry seeds. It's Simply Balanced Honey Almond Flax Granola, homemade yogurt, and homemade jam.
****I really haven't read much of her stuff other than this one recipe, so forgive me if she's some sort of weirdo. The recipe works, though!

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Thinking about blogging, and crocheting, and motivation

I've come out of my early-fall fog a little bit, so I think I might be ready to start blogging again. We'll see how that goes. With the cooler weather, Sam's not escaping the house as much any more, so I'm less stressed out about that. Our family just got over a bad stomach bug, so I'm still a little slow on the cooking. Today I'm making homemade yogurt and taking pictures of the process. I'll post about it tomorrow, including the recipe.

So I looked back over what I was doing at this time last year, and my gosh, I was stitching up a storm. Anything to keep my hands busy. I stayed that way until Sam started preschool in April. I suspect that that was my way of dealing with Sam's autism diagnosis. It was something that we'd sort of known was coming since the summer prior, but hadn't really processed (and let's be honest, we probably never will, completely.) Doing this blog, and making all that stuff, kept my mind on other things than the elephant in the room. Working (caring for Maggie) was much the same. But eventually there was a breaking point where our family as a whole had to accept and embrace Sam's diagnosis for what it was, and begin the hard work of giving him the best start we possibly can.

I thought I knew Sam a year ago. I knew what he did, sure. I knew every detail about how he did things, and what he was saying, and I normally knew exactly what he wanted or what was wrong. But I didn't know why he needed to bundle objects and hum, or memorize letters and numbers. I might have had some clue about his triggers, but the need he was fulfilling with his behaviors wasn't even on my radar. "Yeah, he does that a lot," was the extent of my knowledge. I had no idea how much visual and auditory stimulation he craved. I had no idea how badly he wanted to make music. I had no idea why he craved certain motions and not others.

In the big picture, of course we don't know why he has certain sensory needs, but we have learned a ton about how he meets them. Most of the time, I can redirect his humming to singing, and his bundling can be done in a way that's safe for everyone. Food is still something we're working on. I have a feeling it'll be a long process. He drinks milk and eats chicken, so between those and all the junk food, he's growing and reasonably healthy.

Anyway. I'm not going to set a schedule for updating this blog because I don't want to use it as an escape as much. I'll update when I have something to say. We're finally done with most of our classes, the exception being three more weeks of More Than Words, which we have tonight. Sam got pretty bored over Thanksgiving break, so he's pretty happy to be back in school. We put up our sad little tree yesterday with only one ornament--a star that I crocheted at the top. I'm debating about bringing the big one out for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, but for now, this is what we can handle. It's a little Charlie Brown, but it works.